Don't get me wrong, I love Disney and we own MANY of their movies, especially the princess ones...but hear me out here...have you ever noticed that most Disney movies are really not that healthy of examples for kids? Primo example: The Little Mermaid...
First of all, hardly any of these gals have mothers (including Ariel). If they do they are step mothers and they are evil. What's so wrong with a loving mother in the picture? OK, moving on...
When it comes down to it Ariel is really nothing but a spoiled little brat. She defies her father and puts her family and whole community at risk by doing just exactly what she wants to do (following a guy to the ends of the earth that she has never even really met). And it all works out so NICELY. I mean...come one. Really, who wants your own child acting like that???!!!???
Love is always at first sight (or close to it) and so easily maintained and perfect. It really is a ridiculous example. I'm sure it's not just Disney, but they are the easiest to pick on I suppose. It just goes to show how we as mothers have to be SO careful about our children and the influences they have in their lives. I watched Disney growing up and I was able to go on to have happy healthy relationships, but can you see how a little girls' view of things might get totally screwed up if we weren't careful? If they didn't have other good examples in their lives? If they didn't have parents who talked to them about good decision making and relationships and other such things?
I do love Pixar and think that they have infinetly improved Disney's movie library. The stories seem to be a little bit more "healthy", as well as entertaining for adults also. But I have issues there too. Have you ever noticed in "Cars" that they swear? (I'm in Hillbilly H***!) Thank goodness my kids haven't picked up on that, but I can see how easily they could. Golly, you can't even trust Disney to be clean...oh and don't get me started on the little shows like Suite Life of Zach and Cody (Disney Channel)...I remember seeing a snippet of a show a few years ago and just being disgusted. They had those two little boys on there who at the time were like 12 years old or something totally dating and chasing girls. And who is their target audience? Little kids I'm assuming. Our kids really don't need to grow up that fast...really!
On that note too...can I just say I really hate it when adults encourage that whole little boyfriend/girlfriend thing starting when kids are like two. I know people think it's cute "oh Kelley's 'so and so's' little girlfriend"...but really I don't. I think they will come to that soon enough without any encouragement from adults. I mean really...as a mother how can you expect me to encourage it when she's 5 or 6 and then turn it off when she's 12 or 13 and have it suddenly be against the rules?
OK, well back to bed with me...hopefully I can catch a few more minutes of rest before I have to be really up for the day. I really hate it when I try to be healthy and go to bed at a decent hour and then I wake up at 4:30 AM unable to sleep! Arggg....